First, getting a complete background on your child and a feel for the issues at hand is imperative, as often children themselves won't (or won't be able) to articulate this themselves. In addition, although our intake personnel are well-trained, they are not therapists. Once an individual comes in for an appointment, it may become clear that there are other issues complicating their treatment. Additionally, even if there is a good fit between a child and a therapist, it is difficult to make therapy work unless there is also a good fit with that child's therapist. It can happen that, after an initial meeting, the therapist, the parents, or both may decide a different course or provider of treatment would be more beneficial.
By setting up this initial meeting with the parents only, we avoid having a child feel rejected or hurt by any of these decisions or circumstances.